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HINTS FOR YOUNG MEN TO BUILD SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES, PART 1

      One of the joys of writing on topics from a biblical, business and common sense perspective over the years is that as the times advance, a need to revisit certain topics becomes necessary.

      Marriage is one of those topics.

      There is a LOT to unpack on this subject. Thus, I advise my young brothers to grab a mug of coffee or tea and settle down for some teaching on the issue of marriage—from one who has gone before you. The ‘

DO THEY REALLY WANT YOU—OR ONLY WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THEM?

      The title of this column has been one of those questions that many of us have had to examine from time to time.  Believe it or not, those who are under the name of Jesus Christ have had to contend with this issue in a variety of places.

      Do people want you or only what you can do for them?

      If you know your KJV Bible, Jesus himself had to contend with this matter after he fed the multitudes.  They followed Him so that they c

SECRETS TO SOLID RELATIONSHIPS—PART THREE

      In our last thrilling installment, we briefly covered the subject of having Christ involved in not only your dating life, but your marriage as well.  Yes, I know that the ‘lifting up’ of God may be considered ‘offensive’ to many.  Feel free to contact me at my email addy and apologize.  This series is on having solid relationships.  A solid connection by an individual to God through Jesus Christ AND having relationships with individuals who hold a

SECRETS TO SOLID RELATIONSHIPS—PART TWO

     Continuing from my last column for the men in the house, the first secret to having a solid relationship is to start with God through Jesus Christ.  The KJV Scriptures are a wealth of wisdom and information.  Not only will the Bible tell you the type of people to meet…it will ALSO tell you the types of people to avoid at all costs.  If YOU are a Christian man, brother, a Christian woman is whom you should marry.  In fact, a Christian man should not e

There is nothing stopping a good woman from being a great woman. Ladies, do whatever you need to do to maintain your title, your crown and your thrown - but I strongly advise you to include 7 Types of Queens Kings Desire in your arsenal, then wait for your king to find you.

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How many of us truly possess the divine knowledge, wisdom and understanding of what a relationship is and what

One of my favorite scenes in the Excellent "Cosby Show" series was when Clair Huxtable, played by Phelicia Rashad, and Dr. Heathcliff "Cliff" Huxtable, played by Bill Cosby, were making out in their bed until they got a knock on their bedroom door.  After Bill Cosby responded with "Who is it," his two youngest daughters, Rudy and Vanessa walked into the room.  Then with a face shared with mannerisms that my words have no chance of duplicating, he stresses to the girls that when he asks "who is i

Her name was Leave, but she decided to stay.

In her heart she just knew he would change one day.

Him and her played a sport that kept her visiting the Doctor. 

Some call it football, but it was clearly socc(h)er.   

He was precise with every blow always hitting his goal.

Chipping away at his targets her spirit, body, and soul.

He was nice in the beginning told her stories of being the victim

Said when life had him down people always left or kicked him.

This is when she made the promise that made her pay

Ladies and Gentlemen of the Jury, it is with great pleasure that today I will be bringing to justice a serial killer that we've all come to know and trust named "Common Sense."  For years common sense has been unconsciously destroying/killing relationships and marriages.  It is common sense that keeps individuals from effectively communicating because they assume that their thoughts are "common," causing them not to explain why they do the things they do, or how they come to the conclusions that