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WHERE REAL MEN ARE UNINVITED, PART 1

      Let’s do a few mental warm-ups with my definitions of a few well-known words.  First, there is the word ‘feminist’.  My definition is: “A woman who wants to exercise all of her rights, without paying attention to the responsibilities that come with them.”  ‘Feminism’ is: “That mindset which starts out seeking empowerment but ending up with frustration and disappointment.”  Then there is the word ‘feminized’: “A home, institution or country where the women think themselves in charge and men are quite willing to abdicate their leadership roles in order to make women happy—but not necessarily fulfilled.”

      One last one: ‘feminist mentality’.  My definition is: “The mindset and/or beliefs of feminism distilled into a destructive form.”

      Four phrases you will rarely find coming from the lips of a teenager OR a feminist: “I’m sorry”; “I was wrong”, “Please, forgive me”, and “I was selfish”.  The CLOSEST a feminist will come to ‘owning’ any of these phrases is when—after years of proclaiming their feminism OVER their femininity, they traded the beauty of children and home for a career and get to the end of their career AND fertility and realize that they have nothing to show for their years in the workplace.  Maybe a few awards and accolades, but no husband and no children.  In short, no man to whom they were willing to become a wife to and have someone with whom to share married life.

      Then, with pen or podcast in hand, these ‘modern’ women ‘opine’ as to how unfair life has been to them as they had a successful career at the expense of having children—hopefully IN wedlock.  Again, in short, they seek to ‘blame men’ whom they have uninvited to participate in their lives.  They told marriageable, upright, and (sometimes) godly men who wanted to do the right thing and marry them (the ring, the rice, and the preacher) that they had to ‘wait’ while they had ‘their career’.  “Tomorrow”, spoke many of these high success track but bitter, older women, “Tomorrow, we could get married…but my itch getting scratched AND my career are important to me.  My love, you can shack with me, have sex with me, but my career is more important TO me!”

      Thus, you have a generation of feminists who are quite content to go ‘boyfriend hunting’ rather than getting themselves ready for REAL men to propose marriage.  Go figure.

      There was a song by Beyonce’ a few years back called: “Put A Ring On It!”  To me, the ‘assumption’ of the song was that the woman was perfectly willing to fornicate with her ‘male’, and—because the fornication was soooo good, the ‘male’ SHOULD be willing to ‘marry’ her (now that he has sampled the goods) and claim her as his own by HER insistence.  A REAL man is not encouraged to follow biblical tradition, marrying her first THEN taking her to bed.  In our modern times, that would take too long—and there are plenty of single women out there who believe it is FAR better to be a ‘Booty Call’ rather than a wife.  Of course, God has a better idea, thanks to His word: “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband (I Corinthians 7:2 KJV).” 

     Now, I realize that this isn’t a very popular train of thought.  You won’t hear of this in much of the feminized mainstream mess or on social media.  REAL Men—especially of marrying caliber—have learned how to ‘move on’ from feminists and find women who are ‘traditional’ in their outlook, approach, religion, and relationships.  Real men are under the control of Jesus Christ. 

      Traditional (or Trad) women WANT their man to ask for their hand in marriage.  They ENJOY having their husband treat them like a lady.  They BRAG to their friends that their husband is the prophet, priest, and king of the home.  AND the ‘traditional’ women do NOT believe in Abortion on Demand.  They enjoy having children and watching them grow.  While society views ‘Trad’ women as an anomaly, they have made the choice between what feminism has to offer and what God has to offer.

      Like it or not, ‘Trad’ women and Real men are rapidly becoming the majority in society.

      By choosing God, ‘Trad’ women have chosen the blessings of God—and that includes His blessing of a real, upright man entering their lives.  Of course, REAL men made the choice for God in their lives long before He led them to the right woman to marry.  Real men start out with God and no matter what comes into their lives—or where he leads—He alone means it for good.

      Read the book of Hosea in the Old Testament if you doubt me.

      Billy Dee Williams put forth a line to Diana Ross, some years back in one of their movies.  The line bears remembering, brothers, as Billy Dee stated: “Success don’t mean a damn thing unless you have someone to share it with.”  In short, ladies, that man whom you uninvited to share your life—in many cases—has moved on to seek out a woman who is willing to be his wife and NOT have her view him as her personal ‘Booty Call’ or ‘Boy Toy’.

      Ironically, feminism has blinded women to a key fact: they may ‘act’ like a man, but they don’t have the mental, physical nor spiritual makeup to ‘be’ a man.  No matter how loudly a chicken may try to crow…they ain’t a rooster!  Further, with alllll of the contraceptive aids out there (forced into the marketplace by feminists by the way), why is it that when a feminist fornicates, she winds up pregnant?  I mean, many so-called feminists—many of them single--carry on like they got pregnant by themselves, right?  They don’t ‘need’ a MAN…but then why did their feet come apart?  H’mmm?

      Read the data yourself.  Do your homework.  Abortions for SINGLE career women are more than 80 percent (the last time I checked the statistics) of all abortions while abortion rates for married women are VERY low.  Where ‘males’ are invited into the relationship picture, and MEN are uninvited into that same picture because the feminist wants to be free to fornicate—but not procreate—then you have a very selfish picture of Abortion on Demand.  More to come.

      Mike Ramey is a Retired Minister, KJV Bible Teacher, syndicated columnist and Bible Prophecy Specialist who lives in Indianapolis, Indiana.  “The Quick Scan” is one of a variety of his columns appearing and abounding in print and cyberspace, written from a biblical, business, and common-sense perspective since 1996.  To drop him a line—or a whine—the address is still the same: mgmikeramey@yahoo.com.  ©2024 Barnstorm Communications International.