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Juneteenth: What It Means

     Diane Sears, Publisher of "In Search of Fatherhood" Magazine (which is available on line) sent this item along on Juneteenth.  It is short, quick, and to the point:

    As we observe Juneteeth on 19 June 2024, we should contemplate what really occurred on  19 JUNE 1865. 

WHERE REAL MEN ARE UNINVITED, PART 2

      Real men get married before they procreate—which is the way God intended for it to be.  This is God’s best for REAL men (and the women who love them).  REAL men under the bonds of Jesus Christ will always shoot for God’s best.  Yes, they can come up short. Yes, they can sin.  However, they are quick to repent, forsake their sin, and get back on the narrow highway of life under God.    

      In our current era, one may be shocked to hear a man referred t

THANK YOU, FATHER!

      I wanted to extend a great big thank you to my own Father, who left this earth when I was in my early twenties.  He may not have had the opportunity to see his oldest son graduate from college (the first in the family to do so, back in the seventies) but the lessons that he instilled in me made it possible for me to cross that academic line—and do it DEBT FREE.  Some of the lessons he taught me are worth sharing and passing on to the next generation of fathers out there

ERASED: FATHERS—AND SONS

      One does not have to be a ‘rocket scientist’ to notice that the media narrative—even in our cartoons—contains a major league ‘erasure’ of father and son relationships.  This ‘erasure creep’ has been going on since the 1990s.  We’ve been treated to more ‘ink’ about the ‘woes’ of the WNBA, Women’s Soccer and female college athletics that the social engineers should be choking on the high levels of estrogen in the air.  Then, we have noticed the rise of strong female

PORNOGRAPHY—THAT CORRUPTING SPIRIT

     In continuing with my series concerning some of the spiritual warfare which men—and women—are facing in these last days before the return of Jesus Christ, an examination of the dangers of pornography is in order.  To sum up this column, let me just say this: pornography corrupts everything it touches, from the inside out.

     I’m not writing a scholarly paper on this subject.  Nor am I writing a paper to expose a lot of the ‘dirty’ things about pornography

DO THEY REALLY WANT YOU—OR ONLY WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THEM?

      The title of this column has been one of those questions that many of us have had to examine from time to time.  Believe it or not, those who are under the name of Jesus Christ have had to contend with this issue in a variety of places.

      Do people want you or only what you can do for them?

      If you know your KJV Bible, Jesus himself had to contend with this matter after he fed the multitudes.  They followed Him so that they c

 .........Says Sapele seaport completely abandoned, Calabar, Koko, Port Harcourt, and Warri seaports left to rot, and severely underutilized

 ............Describes performance of Okpe politicians as poor

..........Tells Oborevwori, Dafinone, other Delta top government officials what to do

 President General of Okpe Union, Prof Igho Natufe has expressed concern about the concentration of seaports in Lagos.

“From the perspective of the Okpe Nation and the Niger Delta region, the concentration of seap

A SUCCESS PRIMER FOR YOUNG BLACK MEN, PART 6

      Young man, what is the condition of your soul?  Do you have ‘good religion’?  No, I am not talking about ‘just going to church’.  I am speaking about having a firm relationship with the one who has bought and paid for the TRUE church with his body and blood—the Lord Jesus Christ.

      Now, at this point, there are those who will cry out that I am meddling in a topic that I should not tread.  Nevertheless, I will tread into this arena, for today,

WHERE REAL MEN ARE UNINVITED, PART 1

      Let’s do a few mental warm-ups with my definitions of a few well-known words.  First, there is the word ‘feminist’.  My definition is: “A woman who wants to exercise all of her rights, without paying attention to the responsibilities that come with them.”  ‘Feminism’ is: “That mindset which starts out seeking empowerment but ending up with frustration and disappointment.”  Then there is the word ‘feminized’: “A home, institution or country where the wom

THE OCCULT--THAT SNARING SPIRIT!

     Let me open our time together with a startling fact: All false religions and cult groups have an underpinning of occult practices, ranging from such ‘simple’ items as ancestor worship, tarot cards, crystal balls and the like; to the more complex and deadly spiritual items as ritual sacrifice and necromancy (summoning of evil spirits associated with the dead).  Further, false teachers that are behind these groups KNOW of the occult practices as either they—or

THE ‘ROUND IT UP’ RECESSION?

      I stopped by one of my favorite local fast food restaurants a few weeks back, put in my order and made my way to the pay window.  The employee on the window asked me if I would like to ‘round up’ the price of my purchase to the next highest dollar to ‘help out’ the favorite charity of their fast-food chain.

      I chuckled and said: “Only IF the money goes to the employees.”

      Well, the crew on duty had a good laugh.  I got my correct change, and my order, a

DON’T BE SHOCKED AS THE ‘PRETENDERS’ VANISH!

      This is going to be one of those columns that you will not only want to hang onto, but you will also want to pass on to your sons—and even grandsons—because it will contain some truths that SHOULD be taught in school.  Unfortunately, these truths are often ‘caught’ through real life experience, Amen?

      A few summers ago, I had the opportunity to teach at a Vacation Bible School (VBS) Institute.  I was blessed to host a course on “Introduction

A SUCCESS PRIMER FOR YOUNG BLACK MEN, PART 5

      In continuing the topics of virginity and sexual responsibility for my young Black brothers, let’s review.  First, we are living in an age where some girls and women of ALL races are sexually aggressive towards young men in general, and young Black men in particular.  My objective is to put forth some frank man-to-man talk to help protect our young men from those girls and women—some EVEN in the church—who are under the control of Satan through

......Alerts President Tinubu Over Kwankwaso's Plans To Destabilize APC

A Kano-based political think-tank, the Concerned Kano Progressives, {CKP}, says it will do everything humanly possible to support ongoing efforts of the national Chairman of the All Progressives Congress,  Alhaji Abdullahi Umar Ganduje to  reposition the party and encourage all elected representatives on the platform of the APC to manage the gains of their respective electoral successes.

Similarly, the progressives have also

WANNA END ABORTION? BRING BACK REAL MARRIAGE!

      It seems simple to me.  IF countries—including the United States—want to put a sever crimp in the number of abortions performed every year, traditional marriage should not only be encouraged, but held up as THE example of the best way to have children—and that is in wedlock.  Let the critics of such an action be damned!

      However, do NOT expect the ‘wizards of smart’ of the two political parties to catch my drift for three reasons: 1) BOTH D

THE NEW LIES: DON’T WORK HARD AND DON’T SEEK ADVANCEMENT?

      The quickest way to ‘make room’ for the hundreds of illegal aliens to enter our country and join the American workforce?  Create more and better ‘lies’ to get current American workers to become ex-American workers; content to stay home, pick up a government check, and spend their time ordering takeout and playing video games.  At least, that’s the way it ‘seems’ when one takes the time to check the latest business trends.  Yes sir,

A SUCCESS PRIMER FOR YOUNG BLACK MEN, PART 4

      As I continue with this 12-part series, I have decided to proclaim 2024 as “The Year of the Young Black Man.”  I believe that they are doing well, despite the negative images put forth by the “mainstream mess”.  I realize that you haven't heard about these topics from 'other' areas of the electronic frontier.  This great site is where you need to be, as the action is popping here!

      A few years back, during my Probation Officer days, I made a

“As Nigeria continues to navigate the complexities of national security challenges, Bichi's leadership remains a beacon of hope and inspiration for all those who serve the nation with honor and dedication.”

In the corridors of power and the realm of national security, Alhaji Yusuf Magaji Bichi stands tall as the Director General of the Department of State Services (DSS). With an illustrious career spanning decades within the service, Bichi epitomizes the values of integrity, dedication, and serv

SO, WHY DO DEMOCRATS HAVE A LOVE AFFAIR WITH SOCIALISM?

      I believe in calling something by its proper name, and pointing out some obvious trends where they are applicable.  Take anything that has to do with the British Royals.  Notice how many women “ooh” and “aah” at royal weddings?  Especially American women.  The reason why should be obvious: Admiration for the (perceived) power and prestige of being a royal!

      This also holds true when it comes to socialist, communist, or totalitaria