By Eric Stevens of the Victory Unlimited Show ~


(BlackNews.com) -- Television, radio, and the Internet have been buzzing nonstop for years about the plight of single, black women looking for love, but what about all the single, black men? Nobody's been bold enough to take a stand and speak out on behalf of all the good, single black men out there looking for love too. However, now, that's all changed. The Victory Unlimited Show (www.victoryunlimitedshow.com) attacks this issue with the kind of guts, gusto, humor, and controversy that's rarely heard in the mainstream media.

Based on feedback from the show's fan base, the most recent broadcast entitled "The Top Twelve Reasons Why So Many Good Black Men Are Still Single" put forth the following list as the reasons why so many good black men are still unhappily single:

1. They keep meeting women with unrealistic expectations for what they want in a man.

2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type".

3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man.

4. They keep meeting black women who don't respect them just because they "are" black men.

5. They keep failing women's Girlfriend Approval Test. If the woman's friends don't like them, then that woman won't give them a chance either.

6. They keep meeting women who are not interested in them, but only in how much money they make.

7. They're nobody until somebody else loves them. Not enough women see them as a prize unless they see a lot of other women chasing after them first.

8. They meet too many women who don't really know what they want.

9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good black men are "too good to be true".

10. They're the right man at the wrong time.

11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one.

12. They don't promote all the great things about themselves boldly or consistently enough to enough women.


The Victory Unlimited Show is a "tongue-in-cheek", self-help show for men that's reminiscent of programs from the Golden Age of Radio. During each broadcast, the host codenamed "Victory Unlimited", answers dating, relationship, and general life questions by addressing them with a motivational, military-like zeal. "Before we can go on a mission to rescue black relationships, I think it's important that we take into account not only the women's perspective, but the men's as well," says the host. "Otherwise, we'll never advance from monologue to dialogue, which is where our hope for future success lies." For more details, visit www.victoryunlimitedshow.com


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  • NYMetro

    I don't know why I had some expectation that this article would be of substance instead of more of the drivel that only blames Black women for why Black men are single.  Some Black men can never find happiness with a Black woman because they reject Black women in favor of White ones, yet the latter do nothing but bring Black men down in the end. 

     

    The reality is there is a shortage of good Black men; those that understand the concept of reality and respect and know the difference between lust and love and aren't afraid to show their understanding.  A good man actually has a job or owns a successful business rather than make excuses for his failures.  A good man learns from his mistakes and then makes positive changes.  A good man doesn't belittle a woman for her success nor does he try to free load off of it.

     

    As individuals we are responsible for defining our own happiness based on our own criteria and not what society or even friends and family say is happiness.

  • West

    Beloved One:

     

    The bottom line as to why we are having all the problems we are having in every areas in our lives is that we are not operating with our original natural divine right mind-set, that mind-set we came to space ship planet earth with, that the evil oppressors destroyed and mad our people mind-set into the evil human being (black law dictionary) defines human being as monster, the evil oppressors made our people into their human being image which when being in that image, we can expect to mentally operate in all that is unnatural.

     

    The good black man is single because he cannot find three good black true females to participate in divine polygamy not polygamy just to say a man has several females. Divine polygamy is about family unification and the children health, welfare, and morale. As long as the black females remains selfish, Europeanized Americanized and subscribe to European Americanized ways, she will die an old maid/alone. Most black males good or bad have no problem with what I am sharing. We weren't meant to just be with one person.

     

    The black single females are single because of the above.

     

    As for looking for love, that is a profane thing. Looking for mutual respect between us is what we should seek. Respect supercedes this man made so called love. Most are just looking for lust and twisting it into thinking it is love.

     

    If there is any love, it is divine truth/reality, and knowing, not believing, knowing what divine truth/reality is and what profane realities are, is respect for the mind. When we know the difference between the two we will know, not believe, know what is and what is not and take it from there.

     

    Go up to mentally ill people and ask them what they need. Most if not all can not tell us what they need and what is best for them.

     

    Same with the majority of our people (mentally) ill. How are we to get Divine Harmony, Order, and Balance in anything we do when we still suffer from a enslaved mental illness (most), some suffering from an unrecoverable mental illness? Anything that is out of harmony, out of order, and out of balance is caused by the Master of confusion, profane parasite (ego) Devil mind-set.

    If our people was back in their once Original Divine right mind-set, we would not be having these types of discussion, because we would be doing and saying the Divine right things.

     

    Most of the Black Afrikan females are single because the religious ones drives in their fancy cars, clothes, nose up in the air, drive by what is call blue collar males on the street as they go to their unholy churches and will not so much as stop and say hello/wave to the brothers on the street. Some females are so selfish that if you ask them to get a brother out of the homeless shelter, take him home with her, give him a shower/bath, buy him some new clothes, give him a meal fit for a king, get him a hair cut, shave if needed, and teach him how to treat her, will not do this. Same for the brothers homeless on the street.

     

    Some females helped put those brothers in homeless shelters/streets, and some sisters need to go rescue them off the street/homeless shelter, brothers I have spoken to who are highly creative and intelligent, and more smarter than some brothers who have degrees, etc.

     

    These single sisters need to know how to be loving to herself (RESPECT) I use for love/loving, and respectful brothers will be drawn to a respectful sisters, and vice versa. RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT. PROFANE BEGETS PROFANE/INSANE.

     

    Ninety nine percent of our people are out of touch with their once Divine Natural selves, and most brothers are too, so how can we expect a Divine match between the two, only a profane match?

     

    REPARATIONS NOW WILL REPAIR ALL THAT IS BROKEN AMONG OUR PEOPLE. Only Disrespectful people do not embrace our Savior REPARATIONS NOW is.

     

    • NYMetro

      Huh?  Really?  A full response to refute this would take time.  So simply put, what I gather from this is that it is the belief that women are responsible for fixing broken men but at the same time taking a position of subservience and disrespect to them.  Why would any self-respecting woman take some strange man to her home and feed, clothe nor allow him to bathe, build him up and then watch him ultimately destroy her and then walk out on her?  This should not be advocated for, not even in one's mind.  A man is supposed to be the provider for a family and thus must have the wherewithall to do it, otherwise he should remain alone rather than bring harm of any kind to another. 

       

      If sharing a man is deemed okay then men need to also accept that they should share a woman, yet we know that won't happen.  Most men can barely take care of and love one woman so they could never manage more than one. 

      • South

        A lot of black women are simply awful at choosing a man or don't know how to see one when he comes along. This is the reason why there are so many single mothers because the woman did not take the time to find out what that man is made of before laying with him. How often is it a surprise when a man leaves the mother of his child??? Its not often very shocking because many others probably could've seen it coming, but usually the woman is blind to this fact or refuse to see the truth. Women must take responsibility for the man they choose to be with. Too many black women still think thug guys are the way to go, I see it everyday and I still wonder why this continues to happen... because nine times out of ten that guy is not stable/sufficient enough to take care of himself, his woman, or children over the long haul. There is nothing a man can do to a woman without her consent. I was speaking with one of my female friends and she tells me how much her baby dad is no good, and I responded by telling her it was her choice to not only sleep with him, but to not protect herself, and if we want to take it a step further... not making him pull out if she loves the feel of no condoms that much. She knew he probably wasn't going to be a great dad but she says she thought he would change, or grow up. When women have a lack of knowing the difference between a 'probably might change' guy from a 'most likely on the right path' kind of guy... they will continue to choose the wrong guy, thus- not able to find the right man. Which is just a part of why I believe so many good black men are still single. As far as going to white women... thats a whole 'nother conversation.

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